Building Confidence One Game at a Time

Building Confidence One Game at a Time

Like many children his age, Chandler found social situations more challenging after the COVID-19 pandemic. His parents wanted to help him build confidence and become more comfortable interacting with others, so when they learned about the YMCA Ball Kid Program with the Greensboro Swarm, they knew it was an opportunity worth trying.

"My son, like many in his age group, was struggling with social settings and communication after the COVID years," his parent shared. "I saw this opportunity and immediately signed him up."

Although Chandler had played one season of YMCA basketball, he wasn't particularly passionate about the sport. For his family, that wasn't the point.

"This was less about basketball and more about guiding him out of his shell."

Before the season began, families attended an introductory meeting with the Greensboro Swarm, giving Chandler a chance to become familiar with the program before stepping onto the court.

Even with that preparation, his first game came with plenty of nerves.

"He was extremely nervous for his first game," his parent recalled.

That first experience quickly became unforgettable. Chandler's debut happened to be the same game featuring two-time NBA Slam Dunk Champion Mac McClung. After the game, Chandler had the chance to fist bump Mac as the players left the court — a memory that immediately made the experience feel special.

As the season continued, something even more meaningful began to happen.

"After one or two more games, we began to see his confidence growing, and he didn't need us near him anymore."

Working alongside players, coaches, officials, and arena staff helped Chandler become more comfortable communicating with adults while learning responsibility in a fast-paced environment.

One moment that stood out to his family was watching the players include the ball kids in their postgame routines.

"We loved seeing the players come off the court, fist bump their teammates, and even include the ball boys," his parent said. "The kids really appreciate that."

Being part of the action made Chandler feel like more than a spectator. Whether seeing himself on YouTube TV during broadcasts or proudly telling friends he was a Greensboro Swarm ball kid, the experience gave him a sense of pride and belonging.

"He felt like a VIP," his parent said.

By his second season, the transformation was undeniable.

"Once we got to his second year, we could literally drop him off and pick him up at the end."

The confidence Chandler developed extended beyond basketball. His family watched him become more independent, more comfortable in new situations, and more willing to interact with others.

"It greatly increased his confidence."

Looking back, Chandler's parent says the opportunity is valuable for any child, whether they're a basketball fan or not.

"I would recommend this for any kid. It is not just for basketball fans."

The family is grateful the YMCA made the experience possible and believes more children could benefit from opportunities like this.

"If I had known about this years ago, I would have had my daughter do this also. We are very grateful for the YMCA providing this opportunity."

Through the YMCA Ball Kid Program, young participants gain more than a courtside view of the game. They build confidence, develop responsibility, and create memories that can have a lasting impact long after the final buzzer.